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How to divorce a narcissist with divorce coach Oscar

And How to Overcome These Five Common Fears When Divorcing a Narcissist

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📚 The truth is that the playbook for divorcing a narcissist is entirely different than 95% of all divorces. This is why, typically, divorcees get lousy advice, which turns into bad decisions and out-of-control costs.

I know I am divorcing a narcissist if my spouse:


✅ Contradicts me relentlessly, no matter how irrelevant my opinions are

✅ Works to isolate me from friends and family

✅ Turns our children against me

✅ Lets me know I am never good enough

✅ Must have her way or the highway

✅ Makes me walk on eggshells​

and more.. Much More!

What to expect in a typical narcissistic divorce

Obstruction: They refuse to consider offers and are unwilling to engage in negotiation.

False accusations: They make unfounded claims against you.

Threats: They use intimidation tactics to coerce you into accepting their demands.

Stalling tactics: They employ various strategies to prolong the process and delay resolution.

Guilt-tripping: They attempt to shift blame onto you and make you feel responsible for all issues.

​and more..

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🌟 Couples Therapy does not work with a narcissist. In most cases, the therapist becomes an advocate for the narcissist.
🌟 Reconciliation holds no promise
🌟 Negotiations fall short
🌟 Friends and family don't believe your story
🌟 When you speak, they want to fix you
🌟 The advice you get often creates more confusion

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How to divorce a narcissist with divorce coach Oscar

"I already have a lawyer; I don't need to speak to anyone else. Thank you"


You sure?..

(I worked with eight during my five-year divorce)

Navigating a narcissistic divorce demands far more than the mechanical processes of a typical legal separation. It calls for nothing short of mastering "The Art Of Divorce."

"It is only one who is thoroughly acquainted with the evils of Divorce that can thoroughly understand the profitable way of carrying it on."
Adapted from The Art Of War by Sun Tzu

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How to divorce a narcissist with divorce coach Oscar

When all avenues of reconciliation have been exhausted, divorce may be the only solution left. Most divorcees simply don’t know the correct steps, so they take far longer and spend more money than needed.

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90% Of Divorcees Will Never Make The Right Decisions Without The Right Help

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Sadly, 90% of divorcees will never get the support they need. It’s not their fault; they just haven’t been taught the right way to divorce a narcissist. It doesn’t have to be this way for you, though.

It becomes a race against time from the moment serious thoughts of divorce enter your mind. Each day spent in a toxic relationship with a narcissist chips away at your willpower and resilience, making future decisions even more difficult.

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The Devastating Mistakes Made By Virtually All Divorcees

Countless people, divorcing a narcissist make these common yet fatal mistakes – find out what they are so you can avoid them!

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Q: What is divorce? 

A: According to Merriam-Webster, the definition of divorce is the action or an instance of legally dissolving a marriage. The definition of dissolve is to bring to an end. 

Looking at divorce from a holistic perspective and drawing from my own experiences, I see it as a profound rupture between the mind, body, and spirit. It's the moment of realization that we've been living a life scripted by societal norms, conforming to expectations that aren't truly our own. The breakdown of a marriage serves as a wake-up call, urging us to break free from the constraints of others' expectations and to reinvent ourselves authentically.


Divorce transcends mere legal dissolution; it's a process of shedding outdated beliefs and narratives that no longer serve our growth. Its purpose lies in the liberation to craft a new, more authentic version of ourselves, fostering the freedom and fulfillment we yearn for. 

Q: Why is it so difficult to get away from a toxic marriage- If it is toxic? 

A: We cling to the narratives others impose upon us, often carrying childhood stories that remain obscured from our view. We allow others to overstep our personal boundaries, driven by a fear of losing everything - our finances, possessions, and, most importantly, our children. The dread of such loss compels many to remain in toxic relationships, sacrificing our very souls to avoid the perceived consequences of departure. We fail to grasp that it's in letting go of so much that we can reclaim our essence and embark on a journey of spiritual exploration into a new life. 

We are faced with the biggest question anyone can ask: Either stay in a toxic relationship and keep my stuff or get a divorce, recover my soul, and lose some stuff. On the surface, this may be a simple question, but for many, this is the most profound question they will ask themselves.

We confront the most profound question of all: Do we remain in a toxic relationship, holding onto our possessions, or do we opt for divorce and recover our soul even if it means sacrificing some stuff? While it may sound like a straightforward question, for many, this is the most profound inquiry they will ever face. In fact, this question seems to resemble inquiries found within sacred scriptures, underscoring the profound significance of this moment for an individual.

I typically refer to divorce as the second birth.

 "You must have chaos within you to give birth to a dancing star." ― Friedrich Nietzsche. 

Q: Shouldn't I stay in the marriage for the sake of the children?

A: Children already live in a war zone, and it's universally acknowledged that it's not the ideal place for them to grow up. If you are married to a narcissist, then she has already undermined your role as a father, turning the family dynamic into a battleground where she's the sole decision-maker. In her eyes, the children aren't considered offspring of the marriage but rather possessions exclusively hers.

In other words, you may have children, but are you allowed to play the role of dad?

Q: What is a narcissistic divorce? 

A: The answer comes from The Art of War by Sun Tzu, who says: "All Warfare is based on deception."   

A narcissist will attack with so much deception you will never know what is coming your way. 

Masa asks Adam Neuman (ex-CEO of WeWork): "In a fight, who wins, the smart guy or the crazy guy?" - The Crazy guy answers Adam.   

This cannot be any truer in a narcissistic divorce. 

Q: Why should I spend any effort in a divorce? 

A: Sun Tzu also says: "It is a matter of life and death, a road either to safety or to ruin. Hence, it is a subject of inquiry which can on no account be neglected." 

Q: Why should I speak to you when I get solid advice from my friends? 

A: Trust me, it will be 99% wrong. 

Q: I already have a lawyer. Why should I speak to you? 

A: Navigating a narcissistic divorce demands far more than the mechanical processes of a typical legal separation. It calls for nothing short of mastering "The Art Of Divorce." 

"It is only one who is thoroughly acquainted with the evils of Divorce that can thoroughly understand the profitable way of carrying it on." 
Adapted from The Art Of War by Sun Tzu 

Q: What are some typical problems? 

A: Two recurring concerns voiced by my clients include: 

"I've already invested $10,000 in legal fees, yet I'm still stuck in the same position I was a year ago; nothing seems to have progressed." 

"Feeling scared about reaching out to a lawyer. "The Divorce Legal system is the most complex labyrinth you can ever find; you find locked doors in what appears to be empty corridors, you find deep pools of water where it seems to be granite flooring and blue skies where, in reality, there are iron bars above you. It's a maze riddled with hidden dangers and snares, trapping the unwary and unsuspecting at every turn. 

Q: Why is that? 

A: Clients often need help engaging with lawyers and effectively addressing their needs. This challenge arises from a lack of understanding of the legal process and a corresponding inability to articulate their concerns. Without the necessary knowledge, clients cannot ask the pertinent questions essential for their case. 

Q: but I already have a therapist? 

A: Most therapists prefer not to speak about narcissism and their conduct and how to adapt a divorce to fit a narcissistic spouse. Therapists are there to sort out your emotions, but they typically do not offer divorce strategies. 


Q: How effective is couples therapy


A: I always ask clients I help this question, but none of them have ever told me that it works. In almost every situation, the wife convinces the therapist that the man is at fault and needs to be fixed. This leads to a quick deterioration of the situation and the man finds himself dealing with two women hammering him into the ground.

Q: Can I get all this information from the internet? 

A: You are in a race against time, as divorce must be completed in the shortest possible time. By the time you gather all the information you need, the divorce will be over in three times the time it should have and three times what it should have cost. 

Q: Why speak to you when I can get all the information I need from internet groups? 

A: I visit these groups frequently, and I know the content. Please let me know how it goes. 

Q: Why should I not do this on my own? 

A: You can; it will just take much longer, it will be extraordinarily more stressful, and it will take you five years to learn the ropes. I help clients shorten their journeys considerably 

Q: Why is Oscar a divorce coach?

A: My divorce stretched over a gruelling five-year period. I collaborated with eight different lawyers at various stages and incurred exorbitant legal fees.

It was only after I completed the legal circus that I fully understood what happened and how the system is structured to allow this type of legal abuse to occur. I am deeply motivated to speak to anyone who needs help.

After the divorce, I published a book and obtained my certification as a divorce coach.

Trust me, you simply cannot see the forest for the trees while you are going through a divorce.

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