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high-conflict divorce with A Narcissist?


narcissism and divorce coaching
High conflict divorce with a narcissist
high-conflict divorce coach Oscar
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Divorce coaching client divorcing a narcissist
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Most high-conflict divorces that end up in court are caused by one or both parents being narcissistic. If you have children, parental alienation is almost inevitable. Unfortunately, the divorce industry considers this phenomenon as quack science, which makes finding support next to impossible.
You will need support if this is you

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Here's the brutal truth about divorce:

you don't know who you are married to until you get a divorce!


It truly takes a village to divorce a narcissist, and divorce professionals will simply not have enough time to prepare you for the storm heading your way.


Hesitation, fear, and ignorance cost you a fortune in divorce. We all make mistakes, but when it comes to the end of a marriage, they are brutally expensive.

Very few divorce professionals understand how to navigate divorce from a narcissist.

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Before divorce, you may know the spouse you are about to divorce, but you have no idea how far a narcissist is willing to go in a high-conflict divorce. 


Quite simply, you don't know what you don't know, and trust me, you will be hard-pressed finding professionals who will be able to explain to you how to navigate the storm.

If you're a man who is contemplating or in the midst of a divorce, speaking with me will be the best investment you will make in yourself to protect your sanity and dignity.

Narcissism and Divorce Coach Oscar

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Navigating a high-conflict divorce with a narcissist demands far more than the mechanical processes of a typical legal separation. It calls for nothing short of mastering "The Art Of Divorce."


"It is only one who is thoroughly acquainted with the evils of Divorce that can thoroughly understand the profitable way of carrying it on."

Adapted from The Art Of War by Sun Tzu

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📚 The truth is that the playbook for high-conflict divorce with a narcissist is entirely different than 95% of all divorces. This is why, typically, men get lousy advice, which turns into bad decisions and out-of-control costs.


I have never met an individual who understands what's coming. Mistakes are always made, and they are very expensive.


You are likely divorcing a narcissist if your spouse:

✅ Contradicts you relentlessly, no matter how irrelevant your opinions are

✅ Works to isolate you from friends and family

✅ Turns your children against you

✅ Lets you know you are never good enough

✅ Must have her way or the highway

✅ Makes you walk on eggshells

✅ Transforms from hero to victim on a dime, depending on the situation.

✅ Is a charmer in society and conqueror at home.

✅ Regularly puts you down and minimizes my achievements

✅ Accuses you of exactly the same things they themselves do

✅ Deny events even when they know you were there and witnessed everything - AKA gaslighting?

✅ Do they threaten with divorce frequently to square you into obedience?

✅ Do you feel like their source of energy and supply rather than a spouse?

✅ Do they diminish and insult you on social occasions?

There is much preparation to be done before calling for legal help. A narcissistic divorce need not cost an arm and a leg.

There is no such thing as a simple divorce, but a high-conflict divorce with a narcissist is a whole other level of TOUGH. It's hard to think of another life experience that compares to divorcing a narcissist.

Merely arriving at the decision to ultimately part ways is a journey that typically spans three to five or even more years for the majority.

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