DIVORCE COACHING FOR MEN
How to Overcome These Five Common Fears When Divorcing a Narcissist
AND AVOID THE #1 MISTAKE MEN MAKE DURING DIVORCE
Divorce Coaching for men to overcome Narcissist divorces and regain control
I understand the challenges you’re facing. Think of me as your coach—here to provide clarity, insight, and guidance through one of the most difficult times in your life. My role as a divorce coach for men is to help you navigate the complexities of divorce, especially when codependence and narcissism are at play.
Your first call is free, and you’ll leave with actionable, practical ideas to move forward.
helping clients in usa and Canada
certified Divorce Coach For Men
Hi, my name is Oscar, and I’m a certified divorce coach for men who successfully navigated a five-year high-conflict divorce, appearing in court four times and self-representing twice. Think of me as your sounding board —here to provide clarity and foresight during one of life’s most challenging transitions. I specialize in guiding men through complex divorces, particularly when dealing with a narcissist, offering strategic advice and emotional support to help you regain control.
Divorce often feels like walking blindfolded—not knowing what to expect, how to prepare, or whether you’re on the right path. Without a clear strategy, uncertainty and mounting legal fees can spiral out of control, turning what could be a one-year process into a multi-year ordeal.
As your coach, I help you understand where you are in the process and craft a tailored plan to protect your interests. This strategy empowers you to make informed decisions and avoid the pitfalls of letting others control your future. My coaching fees often pay for themselves by helping you save time, reduce unnecessary legal battles, and regain control of your life.
Don’t let a lack of guidance leave you with consequences that take years to heal. Together, we’ll turn confusion into clarity and conflict into confidence.
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Even amicable divorces are hard, but divorcing a narcissist is a whole other level of tough
Divorcing a narcissist requires far more than legal paperwork.
It demands nothing less than complete mastery of
The Art of Divorce
Q: Do you know what’s most crucial in a divorce?
A: Understanding personalities to predict the most likely path to settlement.
Q: Do you know what’s always overlooked in divorce proceedings?
A: Personality assessments.
Q: What usually happens instead?
A: People waste money, time, and effort, leading to skyrocketing stress and anxiety.
Q: What’s the hidden truth you need to know?
A: Personality disorders such as narcissism are on the rise, yet they remain largely ignored by the divorce industry.
divorce coaching For Men
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Personalized Help
You must shift your perspective from the story of divorce to the business of divorce. This means becoming an extraordinarily effective advocate for yourself and being prepared to drive your case forward with confidence and assertiveness.
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Making Smart Decisions
I won’t sugarcoat it. I’ll give you the straight truth as I see it, grounded in my personal experience and the experiences of the men I’ve coached. I’ll share my honest perspective along with what I believe is your best course of action.
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Feeling Confident
Understand that narcissistic traits are far more common than most professionals are willing to acknowledge or discuss. Recognizing and understanding personality disorders, however, is essential to navigating your divorce effectively.
Protect your Assets
Learn strategies to safeguard your belongings and ensure you keep what’s rightfully yours.
Validation
Speak to someone who absolutely understands what you are going through
Save Money
Avoid common mistakes that can lead to significant financial losses during your divorce.
Be Prepared
Understand how to navigate a high-conflict divorce, especially with a narcissist
Gain Confidence
Equip yourself with knowledge and strategies to face your divorce with assurance and control.
Anticipate
Many phases in divorce are predictable, and you can prepare for them
By managing your divorce effectively, you can save on legal fees and time and safeguard your well-being.
Here’s Another Taste Of What You Can Expect When You Book Your strategy session.
Here’s another taste of what you Can expect when you book your 30-minute strategy session...
The Cold Hard TRUTH About Divorce Corp.
We reveal what’s REALLY happening behind the scenes and why it seems so much harder to get a divorce.
Why getting advice from others Isn’t always the best choice for you
Asking for advice from friends and family is always the best, right? Wrong! We’ll show you why there’s much more to Divorce than first meets the eye and what to do instead.
What to never do when starting a divorce
Please, never EVER do this on your journey to divorce (unless you want to waste several months and over $5,000)
You helped me a lot. If you are about to go through a divorce, he has some good insight to help you make some good early decisions. A very good communicator also.
- Larry L.
I read Oscar's book, the Good, The Bad, The Divorce. A great and easy read that gives you all the pitfalls to watch out for and the basic steps to take in making your way through the court system
- David Z
Thank you a lot, this was very helpful. I really recommend to anyone who is looking for help
- Alan
No fluff, direct clear guidelines for divorce regardless of where you find yourself in the process
Reviewed in the United States on November 15, 2024
Verified Purchase
I picked this book up after I began divorce coaching with Oscar. It served as our "textbook" of sorts throughout our sessions together. It complemented our sessions well and on its own merit, is an excellent eye-opening no fluff guide to getting through a divorce with the best chances of success (or perhaps the least damage). It's direct, approachable and you can pick up pretty much any chapter for the situation you find yourself. I did that at the beginning, then ended up reading it cover to cover.
I highly recommend this book especially if you are considering divorce, have had divorce thrust in your lap, or whether you're already well into the process. And if you are in the process, I HIGHLY encourage you to get a divorce coach throughout the divorce process. Your lawyer is NOT a coach and is not your friend, guide, or anything else. It's a business transaction to them, nothing more. I had two lawyers, the first was horrible. The 2nd, ok. Oscar himself, as he says in his book, had something like 7 or 8. And that afore-mentioned reality of your relationship to your lawyer is just one of the surprises from the book. Here's another, mediation isn't your friend either. The mediator is trying to wrap things up and doesn't care about you, may strong-arm you, and worse might even take sides.
One thing I'll point out is that Oscar writes from his experience in Canadian judicial system in Vancouver. I'm in the state of Tennessee in the United States. While the overall legal landscape was the same between our two countries, some procedural and technical details we don't have, such as the option to arbitrate or the "Judicial Case Conference". Still, the vast majority is relevant and essential. Take it from me, get this book, get a coach, and get ready to have your world turned upside down.
Ryan H. Cunningham
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Simply Follow MY Step-by-step Blueprint To Divorce & You’ll Avoid typical costly mistakes and Hardship
When all efforts at reconciliation have been fully explored, divorce may become the only viable path forward. Unfortunately, many men find themselves unsure of the right steps to take, leading to unnecessary delays, stress, and skyrocketing legal costs.
That’s where I come in. I’ve done the hard work for you. With my step-by-step blueprint, you can navigate the divorce process efficiently, saving time, money, and emotional energy.
Here’s what I bring to the table: I’ve personally endured a five-year divorce process involving countless back-and-forth emails, eight attorneys, four court appearances, and six figures in legal fees. Along the way, I learned hard lessons—lessons I now use to coach men like you through their own journeys. I’ve made all the mistakes, so you don’t have to.
By following my proven advice, you won’t just minimize time, costs, and stress—you’ll also secure far better outcomes than you could achieve on your own. Let me help you take control of your future and move forward with clarity and confidence.
Navigating a high-conflict divorce with a narcissist demands far more than the mechanical processes of a typical legal separation. It calls for nothing short of mastering "The Art Of Divorce."
"It is only one who is thoroughly acquainted with the evils of Divorce that can thoroughly understand the profitable way of carrying it on."
Adapted from The Art Of War by Sun Tzu