meet oscar chavarria
- certified divorce coach and author
I’ve Sat in the Exact Seat You’re in Right Now.
High-conflict divorce with a narcissistic partner isn't standard legal paperwork; it is an unpredictable psychological minefield where ordinary logic doesn't apply. I know, because I survived it.
My own divorce was a grueling 5-year ordeal involving 8 different lawyers, six figures in legal bills, and countless sleepless nights. Ultimately, I stepped into the courtroom as a Self-Represented Litigant (SRL) for a 2-day summary trial. By collaborating strategically with unbundled legal counsel and spending hundreds of hours preparing rock-solid court submissions, I navigated the judicial system and protected my future.
"A high-conflict divorce with a narcissist is unlike anything you have ever experienced. I made every costly mistake along the way, so you don't have to."
That experience changed my life's work. I wrote The Good, The Bad, and The Divorce to expose the hidden pitfalls of the legal system, and earned my credential as a CDC Certified Divorce Coach® to give others the tactical partner I wish I had had.
Today, I act as your strategic co-pilot: helping you decode manipulation, organize airtight documentation, cut down attorney hours, and make decisions driven by calculation rather than panic.
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