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How to overcome these five common fears when divorcing a narcissist

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Hi, I'm Oscar,

Here’s the brutal truth about divorce:
"Most fears about divorcing a personality disordered spouse are true"

Starting my divorce was a rollercoaster ride, just like it is for so many others who've been through it, I thought I would be able to complete it within six to twelve months. Nothing could have prepared me for what was to come! I did not realize then that the light at the end of the tunnel was actually an oncoming train!

Divorce can be an emotional rollercoaster, and I know firsthand how tough it can be. It seemed like my divorce would never end - five years of back-and-forth, eight different attorneys, and four court appearances. The final one? The Court of Appeals. Why did it drag on for so long? Well, let me introduce you to the world of high-conflict divorce. These types of divorces almost always require more time, more litigation, and more money to reach a resolution. Trust me

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Most fear the difficulty of divorcing a narcissist. Many men do not understand the legal system and conflict resolution options, the ignorance of it all will end up costing you several tens of thousands of dollars over and above what it should really be.

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Even amicable divorces are heartbreaking, what to say of a narcissistic one. It is normal to feel overwhelmed by the legal and financial complexities of it all. The lack of preparation and exit strategy early in the process are very costly mistakes that translate into tremendous losses by the time the divorce is completed.

Navigating the complexities of divorce can be a daunting task. I know this all too well, as I found myself in a similar situation without the proper guidance. The result? Wasted time and a hefty legal bill that could have been avoided. But fear not, there is a better way to manage this process and save yourself from unnecessary stress and financial strain..

It is critical to protect yourself during divorce

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Divorcees seek advice from friends and family. The problem is, often they cannot speak to the ugly truths about divorce and respect your personal boundaries. Soon you realize that the most valuable support comes from someone who's been through the same experience.

Divorcees seek advice from friends and family. The problem is, often they cannot speak to the ugly truths about divorce and respect your personal boundaries. Soon you realize that the most valuable support comes from someone who's been through the same experience.

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Some typical advice divorcees get from their inner circle are:

  🌊 You are committed and you should stay in the marriage! It's your obligation!
  🌊 Why don't you just leave?
  🌊 What is holding you back?

  🌊 Just go to court and the problem is solved!

It can get even more complicated when:

  🌊 others don't believe you, forcing you to defend your decisions.

  🌊 they become really emotionally invested, and it gets very challenging to handle their anger issues along with your own stress.

  🌊 give you poor advice and leave you feeling even more confused.

There's a lot to process during this time, and it can only be done at your own pace and time.

A narcissistic high-conflict Divorce is like driving through a foggy night on a winding, rocky road with many curves and turns. It cannot be completed in a single sitting. There are many things to consider and do.

You can greatly benefit from understanding the top reasons for divorce, and see what the road ahed looks like for you.

   ✅ Financial troubles

   ✅ Infidelity

   ✅ Substance abuse

   ✅ Too much arguing

The Stats:
   ✅ 50% of first marriages end in divorce

   ✅ 70% of second marriages end in divorce

   ✅ 75% of third marriages end in divorce


There is no such thing as an easy divorce; however, there are two distinct categories of divorces:
and high conflict.


Amicable divorces can be achieved when two spouses have healthy personalities and agree it is time to end. Even then, amicable divorces are quite difficult, and can also benefit from my cheat sheet.

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There is more to the divorce story than most people realize, mostly because divorcées tend to think of it as a single divorce, not understanding that you must deal with four different divorces:

  ✔ The legal
  ✔ Financial
  ✔ Emotional
  ✔ and the social divorce


It is common for divorcees to depend solely on their lawyers throughout the entire process, without realizing that the attorney is only responsible for one of the four.

A high-conflict divorce will always need extra preparation and planning

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